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We see that you’re new here, and we’d like to give you a proper introduction as for where to properly start.
GraduationGurus was started back in the summer of 2023 as part of a vision to improve the lives of students and other young adults simply looking for more from life, even if they don’t know where to go.
Many of us spend too much of life not living and not appropriately enjoying it. We stay at home, limit our potential, and do less than what is expected of us. I’ve spent, just like many others, simply admiring what others have than acknowledging what I could and could’ve done better. In the end, it doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks, or how we spend our past, but how we spend now and the time to come.
The hardest thing to accept in life, for a majority of us, is the past. Traumatizing events and other acknowledgments are really hard to get by. Those things change us and transform us into new people that are less prone to damage and more understanding, but more vulnerable to a strong hit. When we’re free and happy, we’re strong and unscathed. But when we’re hurt and in pain, we’re weak and vulnerable to any kind of impact.
Don’t Know Where To Go Next?
Just like you, I was stuck. For some part of my life, although it thankfully happened when I was young, I wasted my life doing things that never made me better. I played video games all day, lived without purpose, ate junk food, and just lived at home for the present moment. You’ve probably heard the term “instant gratification”, or because I don’t like copying what other people say, “immediate satisfaction”. I like that term much better in my humble opinion.
The point is: I used to be far worse off. I was in a terrible position in my life, and it only changed for the better once I took the right step forward, and wished to be better. I got up, woke up early, spent time learning new skills that were significant to me, and it changed everything.
If you don’t know where to go, and you’re stuck in the same position in life, where you’re being hit by this and that left and right, you need to think differently. What I mean is: what is that thing that would change who you are, but that you aren’t doing?
You need to be better, and become the best. If you want to be wealthy, or raise a loving family, or spoil your parents with all the riches and luxuries they could hardly ever dream of, what will it take to get there? And what can YOU do to get there?
People love to think about the end goal, the outcome. But the money is really on the process. If you don’t fall in love with doing things every single day, even if they bore you, you can never get better.
Become The Best
I know it sounds cocky, but ego is actually a good thing. You should embrace this energy, because no one else can do it for you. The richest and most well-known people in the world got to where they are because their ego told them they could do it. Ego makes you confident, and blinds you into believing you’re capable. If you have too much of it, it can make people turn against you and hate you. But if you have too little of it, you’ll never take the shot and always pass it to someone else in fear of failing and letting everyone down.
In the end, you only let yourself down. Because, even if the move was successful, you weren’t brave enough to do it yourself and take action. You refused to hold responsibility, and just handed it to someone else. Someone with a high and unstoppable ego would never do the same; they would just, take the shot.
My Promise To You
GraduationGurus is the home of fulfillment and growth for a special reason. I want you, all of you reading this, to learn the lessons that I wish I knew and take the steps that you need to take to get to the land of success; the land so rich that you will never want to turn back.
Thank you for coming. And I hope you enjoy the journey as much as I will.